Israel at the Crossroads: An Election About More Than Netanyahu

Shalom all,

Israel enters the final days before its October 27 election with an extraordinary contradiction. After three years of war, regional confrontation and national trauma, Israelis are being asked to make a political decision about the country’s future while many of the questions that ought to define that future remain unresolved. Who is responsible for October 7? What does victory in Gaza mean? How should Israel deal with Iran and Hezbollah? Can the country remain both Jewish and democratic while its Jewish and Arab citizens become increasingly estranged?

And, perhaps most immediately, can any political leader assemble a government capable of governing?

The election is therefore not simply a contest between Benjamin Netanyahu and his opponents. It is a referendum on responsibility, security, the character of the State of Israel and the political system that Israelis want to emerge from the wreckage of the past three years.

The political map is unusually fluid. Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu and his Likud party continue to campaign on the familiar combination of national security, a strong Jewish-national identity and the argument that Israel needs experienced leadership in an exceptionally dangerous region. Netanyahu insists that his government has demonstrated Israel’s ability to confront Hamas, Hezbollah and Iran and that Israel must not gamble with its survival. This week he specifically rejected speculation that he intends to launch another preemptive attack on Iran before the election, while warning that Israel would respond forcefully to any Iranian or proxy attack.

His opponents, however, argue that the central issue is precisely Netanyahu’s record of leadership. They point to October 7, the absence of a state commission of inquiry, the continuing political influence of the ultra-Orthodox parties and the growing power of the far right. For them, the election is an opportunity to replace what they describe as a government of division with a government of “repair and reconstruction.”

The principal challenger is former IDF Chief of Staff Gadi Eisenkot and his Yashar (“Direct”) party. Eisenkot has emerged as the strongest individual challenger in many polls, presenting himself as a security-minded alternative who can restore public trust without abandoning Israel’s military strength. His message is deliberately not one of a traditional Israeli “peace camp.”  Indeed, most of the principal opposition leaders remain firmly within the Zionist security consensus and do not advocate the immediate creation of a Palestinian state. Their argument is rather that Israel can be equally determined about its security while changing the way the country is governed and the way it conducts itself internationally.

Naftali Bennett’s B’Yachad (“Together”) party represents another important strand of the opposition: economically reformist, security-minded and generally right of centre, but opposed to the present political arrangement. Bennett has emphasized reducing the cost of living, breaking monopolies, streamlining government and expanding military service. His party also supports civil marriage and changes to the existing arrangements with the ultra-Orthodox. Bennett has made three particularly significant demands for any future government: a state commission of inquiry into October 7, universal military enlistment and a constitution for Israel.

Avigdor Liberman’s Yisrael Beiteinu (“Israel Our Home”) party occupies a distinctly hawkish and secular position. He supports, among other things, a strong national-security posture and universal military service, but is deeply hostile to the political power of the ultra-Orthodox parties. His refusal to support a government dependent upon the Arab parties is particularly significant because it could make the arithmetic of a post-election coalition much more difficult.

Yair Golan’s Democrats party represent the clearest ideological break with the Netanyahu government. The party places democracy, judicial independence, separation of religion and state, civil marriage and institutional accountability at the centre of its programme. It opposes annexation of Judea and Samaria (what is referred to as “the West Bank” [of the Jordan River]), supports a more diplomatic approach to the “Palestinian” issue and, significantly, is the only major opposition party openly prepared to contemplate the participation of an Arab party in a governing coalition.

Yair Lapid’s Yesh Atid (“There is a Future”) party remains a centrist, secular and liberal alternative, while also opposing Netanyahu’s return to power. Together, Eisenkot, Bennett, Lapid, Golan and Liberman have publicly pledged to cooperate in an effort to establish what they call a Zionist, statesmanlike government devoted to “repair and reconstruction.” They have promised not to attack one another during the campaign and to establish joint working groups on such issues as ultra-Orthodox enlistment and the creation of a state commission of inquiry into October 7. This promise had a short life, as Liberman took a stand against Eisenkot. The attack followed Liberman’s declaration Thursday that if the opposition fails to obtain a majority vote, he would not support a minority government that would allow the Likud to become a coalition partner, even temporarily, but without Netanyahu – an option floated by Eisenkot.

Yet there is an even greater weakness in this apparent unity: they have not agreed who should actually lead the country.

That may become the election’s central problem. Israel’s proportional electoral system means that winning the largest number of seats does not automatically make a party’s leader prime minister. A government requires the support of at least 61 of the 120 members of the Knesset. Current polling suggests that neither the Netanyahu camp nor the opposition has a guaranteed path to that number. Israel could therefore emerge from October 27 with a clear electoral winner but without a clear government.

Another potentially important player is former IDF Brigadier General Ofer Winter and his new Amcha Yisrael (“Your People, Israel”) party. Winter, a highly decorated combat commander and former commander of the Givati Brigade and Fire Formation, has positioned Amcha Yisrael as a broad, national movement rather than a sectoral religious party. The slate combines a strongly security-oriented outlook with an attempt to appeal beyond the religious-Zionist constituency, most notably through the inclusion of Arab-Israeli public figure Yoseph Haddad in the number-two position. Winter has called for a broad right-wing government and has taken a particularly hard line on Gaza, including support for what he describes as voluntary emigration of Gazans.

The party’s immediate challenge, however, is crossing the electoral threshold. Its entry into the Knesset could materially affect the coalition arithmetic on the right. If it does cross the threshold, Amcha Yisrael could potentially become a natural partner in a Netanyahu-led government, although Winter’s insistence on his own political red lines could make coalition negotiations less straightforward than simply assuming that his seats would automatically join the Likud bloc. At the same time, the campaign surrounding Haddad illustrates the increasingly personal and sometimes vicious nature of this election. He is a journalist and activist who advocates for Israel on social media and international speaking tours. He served as a Commander of the elite Golani Brigade of the IDF and was seriously injured during a fierce battle during the Second Lebanon War in 2006. Haddad has been subjected to attacks and attempts to undermine his reputation precisely because of his prominent position on the Amcha Yisrael list and his role as an Arab-Israeli advocate for Israel. Whatever one’s political view of Haddad or Winter, the effort to discredit Haddad raises a broader question: is Israel prepared to recognize an Arab-Israeli patriot as a legitimate participant in a predominantly Jewish political movement, or will political opponents attempt to turn his identity itself into a weapon? That question gives Amcha Yisrael an importance disproportionate to its current polling numbers.

And this brings us to the most uncomfortable question in this election: the Arab vote.

Arab citizens constitute roughly one-fifth of Israel’s population, and the Arab parties could hold the balance of power in a closely divided Knesset. Mansour Abbas’s Ra’am (an acronym for “Reshima Aravit Meuhedet” – “United Arab List”) is particularly important. Abbas has condemned the October 7 attack, has concentrated heavily on crime and socioeconomic issues affecting Arab communities and has previously demonstrated that an Arab party can participate pragmatically in an Israeli governing coalition. Yet Netanyahu and virtually all of his principal opposition rivals have said they will not include an Arab-led party in a coalition.

This creates an extraordinary political paradox. The Arab parties may be sufficiently strong to determine who can form a government, while the principal Jewish parties insist that they will not permit them actually to be part of that government. That position may be politically understandable in the aftermath of October 7 and amid continuing security concerns. The issue is made more sensitive by what happened earlier in the campaign. The Central Elections Committee voted to disqualify Ra’am and the Joint List from participating in the election, but the Supreme Court subsequently overturned those disqualifications. The episode exposed just how politically charged the electoral process has become. The argument is no longer merely about policies; it is increasingly about who is regarded as legitimately entitled to participate in Israel’s democracy.

There is another problem. Israel is attempting to conduct a national election while still living under extraordinary security conditions. Authorities are preparing polling stations for possible missile attacks, sirens and other emergencies, including plans involving shelters and potentially extended voting hours. Postponing an election would itself require an extraordinary parliamentary threshold. At the same time, Israeli security officials are preparing for possible attacks and foreign interference directed at the electoral process.

The security situation remains inseparable from the politics. Gaza is no longer experiencing the same level of fighting that characterized the height of the war, but the conflict is not simply over. The implementation of the American-sponsored Gaza framework remains incomplete, with the disarmament of Hamas, Israeli withdrawal and reconstruction unresolved. The West Bank remains volatile, with continuing settler violence and Palestinian attacks adding another layer of insecurity. Hezbollah remains a threat in Lebanon, while Iran and its regional proxies remain the strategic threat most capable of transforming Israel’s political debate overnight. Interestingly, the players in this scenario are expecting surprise attacks from other players and are preparing accordingly. May it be that we are never again surprised by any action or intention of our enemies.

Indeed, Netanyahu’s opponents have accused him of potentially seeking an “October surprise” – a dramatic military action before the election that could transform the political environment. Netanyahu has denied that he wants a pre-election attack on Iran. The very fact that such speculation has become part of the election campaign illustrates how deeply security and politics have become intertwined.

Perhaps nowhere is this intertwining more evident than in the extraordinary legal battle now unfolding between Netanyahu and his former security establishment.

Former Shin Bet chief Ronen Bar filed a NIS 3 million defamation lawsuit against Netanyahu this week. Bar alleges that Netanyahu has attempted to rewrite the history of October 7 by shifting responsibility for the security failures onto the Shin Bet and its leadership. The lawsuit details warnings that Bar says were conveyed to Netanyahu’s office before the attack and alleges that the prime minister disregarded or failed to act upon them. Netanyahu rejects those allegations and has argued that Bar himself could have contacted him directly.

The lawsuit is significant not merely because of the money involved. It is effectively a courtroom extension of the national argument over October 7: who knew what, when did they know it, who warned whom, and who ultimately bears responsibility?

Netanyahu remains the only senior political figure from the pre-October 7 leadership who remains prime minister. He has resisted establishing a state commission of inquiry, arguing that the traditional mechanism would not command public confidence. His opponents see that refusal as an attempt to avoid personal accountability. The Bar lawsuit therefore arrives at precisely the moment when Israelis are being asked to decide whether the political leadership that presided over the greatest security catastrophe in the country’s history should be entrusted with another term.

This election is consequently about much more than Netanyahu’s political survival.

It is about whether Israelis believe that security is best protected by continuity or by change; whether military strength can coexist with institutional restraint; whether a Jewish state can maintain a genuinely democratic political system when almost 20 percent of its citizens are viewed by much of the political establishment as unacceptable coalition partners; whether the ultra-Orthodox can continue to receive exemptions from military service while the burden of prolonged warfare falls disproportionately upon others; and whether Israel can restore relations with allies without compromising its security.

The opposition has an opportunity, but it also faces a warning. It is relatively easy to campaign against Netanyahu. It is considerably harder to construct a coherent government from parties that range from the secular right through the centre to the Zionist left. The differences over Arab participation, religion and state, the Palestinians, the judiciary and the premiership itself are not cosmetic differences. They could destroy an opposition coalition before it begins.

Netanyahu, meanwhile, faces his own paradox. His political strength has always rested on the proposition that when Israelis are afraid, they turn to him. Yet the defining question of this election is whether October 7 permanently reversed that equation. For some Israelis, the attack proves that only a leader with Netanyahu’s experience and determination can protect the country. For others, it proves the opposite: that the man who was in charge when the catastrophe occurred should not be the man entrusted to prevent the next one.

The answer will be delivered on October 27. But even then, Israel may not immediately know what the answer means. If neither bloc reaches 61 seats, the Arab parties could become kingmakers. If the major Jewish parties refuse to cooperate with them, Israel could face another prolonged period of coalition negotiations – or another election. If a government is eventually formed, it will inherit a country still carrying the physical and psychological scars of October 7, a fragile situation in Gaza, an unresolved confrontation with Iran and Hezbollah, deepening Jewish-Arab tensions, a bitter dispute over judicial and governmental authority, and a public increasingly impatient for accountability.

Israel therefore approaches this election not simply as a country choosing a government, but as a country asking itself what kind of country it wants to be after October 7.

The most important ballot may not be the one that determines who wins the most seats. It may be the one that determines whether Israel can once again translate an election victory into a government capable of governing – and whether that government can restore the one commodity that neither military power nor political rhetoric can manufacture: public trust.

Do not trust in princes, in mortal man, in whom there is no salvation. His spirit departs, he returns to the earth; In that very day his thoughts perish. How blessed is he whose help is the God of Jacob, whose hope is in the LORD his God. (Psalm 146:3-5)

Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. (Proverbs 3:5)

Have a great week. Bless, be blessed and be a blessing.

Marvin

October 7: The Unhealed Wound, The Unceasing Pain and a Flag that Needs to be Raised Again

Shalom all,

There are days in a nation’s history that divide time into “before and after”. For Israel, October 7, 2023, is one of them. Before that morning, families went to sleep believing the the border would hold, that the army would protect them and that the warning systems, intelligence services and political leadership entrusted with their safety would do what they were created to do. By the end of the day, homes had become crime scenes, peaceful communities had become places of brutal slaughter, families had been torn apart, and hundreds of people had been carried into captivity in Gaza. The sounds of music festivals and expectation of a holiday Sabbath morning were replaced by gunfire, desperate telephone calls, and the unbearable silence that follows the loss of someone who will never come home.

On October 7, 2026, Israel marked the third anniversary of that catastrophe. The calendar has moved forward. The grief has not. And the question confronting the country is no longer simply how to remember that terrible, Black Shabbat, but how to ensure that its dead, its wounded, its hostages, and its shattered communities will not have suffered in vain.

A nation lowers its flag – and confronts its conscience

The remembrance was not confined to a single ceremony or a single moment of silence. On October 5, the official national memorial observance began according to the Hebrew calendar, with President Isaac Herzog lowering the Israeli flag to half-mast at his residence. State ceremonies at Mount Herzl honored those murdered in the October 7 attack and those who fell in the war that followed. On October 7 itself, municipalities, survivors, bereaved families and communities across the country gathered again, many at 6:29 a.m. – the time associated with the beginning of the assault. At the Nova music festival site, relatives embraced and wept where their loved ones had been killed. Across Israel, flags at halfmast, memorial gatherings, photographs of the dead and moments of silence gave visible expression to a sorrow that cannot be contained by a calendar.

A flag lowered to half-mast is a simple gesture, but its meaning is profound. The flag that ordinarily rises proudly above government offices, military installations and public buildings descends in recognition that the country has suffered a wound. It says that the dead are not forgotten that the wounded are not invisible and that the suffering of individual families belongs to the national story.

Yet remembrance must mean more than lowering flags and delivering speeches. It must also mean listening to the bereaved when their questions are uncomfortable, honoring the survivors whose lives remain divided into before and after, and acknowledging the failures that left Israeli citizens exposed to an attack of devastating proportions.

There is something especially painful about remembering October 7 three years later. The attack was not merely a military defeat or a tragic security incident. It shattered a fundamental promise of the modern State of Israel, that Jewish sovereignty would mean that Jews would no longer be helpless in the face of organized violence and terrorism directed against them. The country possessed an army, intelligence agencies, sophisticated surveillance systems, and formidable technological capabilities. Yet, on that black morning, the people who depended on those institutions were left waiting for help that came too late.

The lowering of the flag must, therefore, be accompanied by a willingness to examine what happened. Otherwise, remembrance risks becoming a ritual that comforts the living without protecting those who will come after them.

The failures that cannot be buried with the dead.

The tragedy of October 7 was made more devastating by the contrast between Israel’s apparent preparedness and the reality of its vulnerability. Hamas-led attackers breached the Gaza border, overwhelmed military positions, entered residential communities, attacked, raped and dismembered civilians at home and at a music festival and abducted men, women, children and older people into Gaza. Approximately 1,200 people were killed and 251 were taken hostage. The scale and speed of the assault exposed a profound failure of national defense.

The questions that followed were unavoidable. Why were claimed intelligence warnings not translated into effective defensive measures? Why was the threat underestimated? Why were communities near the border left so vulnerable? Why did communications and the military response fail in so many places? Why did residents and local security teams sometimes have to defend themselves for hours while waiting for assistance from the Israeli military? And more.

These are not questions asked merely to assign blame. They go to the heart of the relationship between a government and its citizens. When a state asks young men and women to serve in uniform, when families pay taxes and accept the burdens of national service, and when citizens settle their lives in communities exposed to danger, they are entitled to expect that the institutions responsible for their protection will take foreseeable threats seriously.

Three years later, the demand for accountability remains inseparable from the demand for remembrance. The absence of a fully independent, comprehensive public inquiry has continued to fuel criticism of the political leadership and the security establishment. Such an inquiry should establish the chain of decisions, examine the intelligence and operational failures, identify institutional weaknesses, and recommend changes that can be tested and implemented.

Accountability must not be confused with the search for a convenient scapegoat. Responsibility may extend across governments, intelligence assessments, military planning, operational command, and long-standing strategic assumptions about Hamas. The purpose of a serious investigation is not to protect one institution by sacrificing another, nor to satisfy one political faction at the expense of another. It is to establish the truth.

Nor should the demand for accountability diminish the courage of those who fought. Soldiers, police officers, local defenders, medical teams, emergency responders, and ordinary citizens acted under extraordinary conditions. Some paid with their lives while attempting to rescue people they had never met. Their courage deserves to be remembered without being used as a reason to avoid examining the failure that made their sacrifice necessary. A nation can honor its heroes and question its leaders at the same time. Indeed, genuine respect for those who died demands that the country learn why they were left exposed to danger.

The human cost: numbers that represent entire worlds

Numbers are necessary for understanding the scale of a national catastrophe, but they can also conceal the individual lives behind them. Approximately 1,200 people were killed in the October 7 assault. Among the dead were civilians, soldiers, police officers, foreign nationals, young people attending a music festival, parents protecting children, and other people who had believed their homes would remain a place of safety. The 251 hostages represented another form of suffering: families forced to endure uncertainly, separation, fear and the possibility that those taken from them might never return.

The Israeli National Insurance Institute’s figures published for the third anniversary provide another measure of the devastation. By October 2026, it reported 1,029 civilian victims murdered in terrorist attacks since October 7, excluding security personnel and local emergency-response teams, and 87,425 additional victims of hostile actions recognized in its records. Of the latter, thousands have sought recognition for disability, including psychological injury. These categories cover the broader period of the conflict and should not be mistaken for a count of people physically wounded on October 7 alone.

The military toll is equally sobering. The Israel Defense Forces reported 970 personnel killed in operational circumstances over the three years of war, a figure covering the broader period and not just the original attack. The IDF also reported that more than 70 percent of soldiers wounded in the war had returned to service. That figure is a measure of both recovery and resilience, but it does not erase the pain of those whose injuries have permanently altered their lives.

Behind every number is a human story. A child grows up without a parent. A parent visits a grave instead of waiting for a familiar voice on the telephone. A survivor returns to a home that no longer feels safe. A soldier who has recovered physically may still wake at night to the memory of a battlefield. A family may celebrate a birthday while feeling the absence of someone who should have been there.

Some wounds are visible. Others remain hidden behind a composed face, a return to work, or an attempt to resume ordinary life. The public ceremony ends, the flags rise again and the cameras move elsewhere. But grief does not follow the news cycle. For many Israelis, October 7 is not one day remembrance once a year. It is a daily presence.

The return of the hostages, living and dead, marked an important change in the country’s collective mourning. By the third anniversary, all the hostages had been returned, according to reporting at the time. Yet the return of a loved one does not automatically restore the life that existed before the abduction. Survivors must rebuild their physical health, their trust, their relationships, and their sense of security. Families who received back bodies of murdered loved ones must learn to live with a loss that no national ceremony can reverse. Remembering the dead requires more than counting them. It requires refusing to let their names become abstractions.

Gaza’s toll – and the importance of getting truthful information

Any honest remembrance of October 7 must also confront the human cost of the war that followed. Israel’s military campaign against Hamas brought immense destruction to Gaza, displaced much of its population and left civilians facing prolonged deprivation and the loss of homes, family members, and essential services. Recognizing this suffering does not diminish the crimes committed against Israelis on October 7. Nor does remembering October 7 require pretending that the consequences of the war have been confined to Israel.

The question of casualties in Gaza has become central to international debate. Figures published by the Gaza Ministry of Health, which operates under the Hamas-controlled government, have been cited extensively by international organizations and new agencies. The main problem with those figures is that they are not independently verifiable and they also do not distinguish between combatants and civilians.

It is important to be precise about what these numbers do – and do not – establish. Because the figures are issued by an authority operating under Hamas rule, and because the conditions of war make independent access, identification and verification exceptionally difficult, they cannot be treated as a comprehensive, independently audited accounting of every death and injury. Questions about the completeness of records, the identification of individuals, the distinction between combatants and civilians, all complicate the task of establishing an exact toll. A government, a military, a journalist, or an advocate should not present a contested figure as though it were a fully verifiable fact. The responsible approach is to identify the source, explain its limitations, distinguish confirmed information from estimates and avoid claiming certainty where certainty is unavailable.

For Israel, the challenge is to ensure that its account of October 7 remains anchored in documented facts, testimony, evidence and the identities of the victims. The massacre does not need exaggeration to be horrifying. Its reality is established by the people murdered, the families shattered, the hostages taken and the evidence of what happened. The truth is powerful enough without embellishment. Whether the factual evidence is believed by other countries, organizations and individuals in an entirely different matter.

What did Israel achieve through the war?

Three years after October 7, it is legitimate to ask what Israel achieved through its decision to wage war against Hamas. This question should neither be avoided out of respect for the dead nor answered with an uncritical declaration of victory.

The war was launched in response to an unprecedent attack, with objectives that included dismantling Hamas’s military capabilities, preventing it from repeating an assault on the scale of October 7, recovering the hostages, and restoring security to Israel’s southern communities. These objectives must be assessed individually, rather than treated as though progress toward one necessarily establishes success in all the others.

There have been significant military consequences for Hamas. The IDF reported that approximately tens of thousands of targets in Gaza had been struck during the broader war, as part of approximately 100,000 targets struck across several fronts. Israel also reported eliminating much of the senior command structure of Hamas and other hostile organizations. These figures are official Israeli military claims, and the number of targets struck is not, on its own, proof that every strategic objective has been achieved. Nevertheless, the military campaign imposed substantial damage to Hamas’s military organization and leadership.

The return of the hostages was another major outcome. Their release and the return of the bodies of those who were murdered in captivity brought an end to the ordeal of families who had spent months or years waiting for news. It would be impossible to calculate the emotional significance of a hostage returning home, embracing a parent, meeting a child, or finally being laid to rest in Israel. Yet it is equally important to acknowledge the enormous time, resources, military risks and public pressure involved in securing their return.

The war also changed Israel’s security calculations beyond Gaza. Israel confronted Hezbollah and other armed groups, faced attacks from Iran and its regional proxies and undertook military operations across multiple fronts. These developments demonstrated both the scale of the threat Israel perceived and the wider regional consequences of the conflict. They also came at a considerable cost, in military casualties, economic disruption, international criticism, and the continuing burden on IDF reservists and their families.

There are further gains that are less easily measured. Israeli society demonstrated extraordinary capacity for mobilization. Volunteers supported evacuated families, communities organized emergency assistance, medical teams treated the wounded, and citizens from different backgrounds stepped forward to help people they did not know. Reservists left jobs and families to serve. Civilian organizations provided food, shelter, equipment, psychological assistance, and practical support. In many places, the response of ordinary Israelis filled gaps left by institutions that were struggling to cope with the scale of the disaster.

This solidarity is not a substitute for effective government, but it is one of the most important facts about Israel’s response to October 7. The failure of the state to protect so many citizens did not extinguish the willingness of citizens to protect one another.

The country also gained a painful clarity about the dangers of complacency. Technological superiority cannot replace sound intelligence analysis. Border barriers cannot substitute for operational readiness. Military strength cannot compensate for a strategic doctrine that underestimates an adversary’s intentions. And no state can assume that yesterday’s deterrence will necessarily prevent tomorrow’s attack. These are lessons worth retaining, provided they lead to concrete reforms.

But, military achievements must be measured against the original objectives. Have Israel’s communities been made safer for the long term? Can Hamas be prevented from rebuilding its military organization? Is there an enforceable security arrangement that will protect Israel without committing it to indefinite warfare? Can displaced families return home with confidence? And can the country recover a sense of security without sacrificing the democratic accountability that distinguishes it from the organizations threatening it?

These questions remain more important than a simple declaration of victory or defeat. The positive results of the war are real in areas where they can be demonstrated: the degradation of Hamas’s military leadership and infrastructure, the return of the hostages, the mobilization of Israeli society, and a renewed understanding of the requirements of national defense. But these achievements must not be confused with proof that every objective has been fulfilled, or that the human and strategic costs were unavoidable.

A nation honors its soldiers not by claiming that every sacrifice was necessary, but by ensuring that the sacrifices made contribute to a safer future.

Remembrance must unite a divided country

October 7 has also exposed deep divisions within Israel over political leadership, responsibility, military strategy, the conduct of the war, and the future of Gaza. Bereaved families and survivors do not all share the same political opinions. Some demand an immediate accounting of the failures; others emphasize the need to maintain military pressure against Hamas. Some focus on the responsibilities of the government, while others fear that political disputes will weaken the country in the face of continuing threats.

These disagreements should not be treated as a betrayal of the dead. In a democracy, asking difficult questions is not a rejection of national solidarity. It is part of the process through which a nation determines what its obligations to its citizens mean.

The danger lies in allowing political allegiance to determine which suffering is acknowledged and which suffering is ignored. No party owns the memory of October 7. No government can claim exclusive authority to speak for every bereaved family. And no criticism of political leadership should be interpreted as a rejection of Israel’s right and obligation to protect its citizens.

The national flag belongs to all Israelis. Its descent to half-mast should, therefore, be a moment when political differences are placed in perspective – not erased, but subordinated to a shared recognition of loss and responsibility. The dead were not divided into political camps when they were brutally murdered. The wounded did not choose their injuries according to party affiliation. The families waiting for loved ones to return did not experience their anguish according to ideological categories. Their suffering belongs to the entire nation.

This is why an independent investigation into the failures surrounding October 7 is so important. The country needs a factual record that can withstand political pressure and the passage of time. It needs recommendations that address intelligence, military readiness, civilian protection, emergency communications, and the relationship between political decision-making and professional security assessment. It needs to know what went wrong, who was responsible for which decisions, and how the system must change. And it needs to demonstrate that the findings will have consequences.

Remembrance without accountability risks becoming a national ceremony repeated while the underlying weaknesses remain. Accountability without remembrance risks becoming a technical exercise that loses sight of the human beings whose lives were destroyed. Israel needs both.

Three years later: the meaning of hope

Perhaps the most moving aspect of October 7 is not simply the memory of what was lost, but the persistence of life in the face of that loss. Children have grown older without parents who should have watched them grow. Parents have learned to speak about children who will never return. Survivors have attempted to rebuild lives interrupted by terror and captivity. Communities have worked to restore homes, schools, businesses and the ordinary rhythms of daily existence.

At the Nova festival site, the memory of those killed remains inseparable from the music, the friendships, and the young lives that were cut short. In the communities near Gaza, the familiar landscape carries memories of people who once lived ordinary lives there. For the families of fallen soldiers, every national anniversary is another reminder that the person they lost is absent from the future they had imaged. For the wounded, they face a different, ongoing war. And yet Israel continues.

People return to work. Children go to school. Families gather around Shabbat tables. Soldiers come home. Volunteers continue their work. New life begins even in families whose lives were forever changed by captivity and loss. These ordinary acts are not evidence that the country has forgotten. They are evidence that terror has not succeeded in extinguishing the desire to live. Hope, however, must not be confused with a demand that people move on before they are ready. Survivors should not be expected to turn their suffering into an inspiring story for the convenience of others. Bereaved families should not be pressured to find meaning in a loss that may always remain incomprehensible. The wounded should not have to demonstrate resilience to deserve support. A humane nation makes room for grief that has no timetable.

It also makes room for the difficult work of rebuilding trust. Citizens must be able to trust that their leaders will tell them the truth, that the military will learn from its failures, that emergency services will be prepared and that communities near the border will not again be left to face an overwhelming assault without adequate protection.

The promise of October 7 remembrance is not that Israel will never again experience danger. No responsible leader can make that promise. The promise must be that the country will confront danger with greater preparedness, greater honesty, and a deeper commitment to the lives it is charged with protecting.

The flag must rise again

On October 7, Israel remembered the catastrophe that had transformed its national consciousness. The lowering of flags, the ceremonies, the photographs, the testimonies and the tears brought the country back to a morning that many would give anything to erase. But remembrance cannot end when the ceremonies conclude. The 1,200 people murdered in the attack cannot be brought back. The years stolen from the hostages cannot be restored. The physical and psychological wounds of tens of thousands of Israelis cannot be wished away.

What remains within Israel’s power is what it chooses to do with the memory. It can demand a serious accounting of the failures that preceded the attack. It can strengthen its defenses without surrendering the principles that give its society meaning. It can support the wounded and bereaved long after public attention has moved elsewhere. It can assess the achievements of the war honestly, recognizing both the damage inflicted on Hamas and the costs that Israel itself has borne. And it can insist that the truth be established through evidence, rather than political convenience.

The greatest danger now is not that Israel will forget the date. The country is unlikely ever to forget October 7. The danger is that the memory will become so familiar that it loses its power to demand change – that ceremonies will replace answers, slogans will replace analysis, and the sacrifices of the dead and wounded will be invoked without fulfilling the obligations they place upon the living.

The flag must rise again. It must rise above a country that has learned, that has mourned, and that has taken responsibility for its future. It must rise over communities where children can sleep without fear, over homes to which displaced families can return, and over a society in which those who failed in their duties are held accountable and those who suffered are not abandoned. And, to borrow a line from George M. Cohan’s 1906 hit song, You’re a Grand Old Flag: “forever in peace may you wave”.

And when Israel gathers again to remember October 7, the measure of its progress should not be in the number of speeches delivered or the solemnity of the ceremonies. It should be whether the country has become better able to protect its people, whether its institutions have earned back public trust, and whether the lives lost on that terrible Shabbat morning have helped to build a future in which such a catastrophe will be far from ever being able to happen again.

Three years have passed. The dead remain dead and the grief remains real. But the obligation of the living remains just as real: to remember without hatred consuming the future, to seek justice without abandoning truth, and to defend the country without forgetting the human value that makes defending it worthwhile.

May the memory of those murdered be blessed. May the wounded find healing, the bereaved find comfort, and the survivors find the strength and resolve to rebuild. And may the next generation inherit an Israel that remembers October 7, not only as the day that it suffered a severe national wound, but as the day it began the difficult work of becoming more vigilant, more accountable, and more determined to protect the lives entrusted to it.

May Israel remember its calling to bless, to be blessed and to be a blessing.

Marvin

© 10/10/2026